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-- wombat oak entre france, nouvelle-zélande et australie recherche menu principal aller au contenu principal aller au contenu secondaire accueil à propos carte nz interviews photos photos nz surdité / deafness navigation des articles ← articles plus anciens bearing nadav’s memory publié le 15 juillet 2016 par wombat répondre (this post is the fourth of a series about nadav's death. the previous ones are et lux perpetua luceat eum , nadav's legacy , and facing nadav's death ) today, it has been six years since nadav died. most people would say his story is heartbreaking. and it actually is, in a way. but it is also one of the best and bravest stories i’ve ever witnessed. was i sad when he passed away? yes, because he was a great person. but am i sad today when i think about him? no, because he lived, and i was lucky enough to cross his path. today, i am infinitely grateful for having been his companion for six months, and for everything he brought into my life. his father said one day that he often wondered what would stay from nadav now, in our daily lives. i can only say : but i can't even take it out of my life. he shaped my life with his. and he still lives in it. he was only a kid; yet he reached out to the shattered kid hidden into me, and bonded with him. i was supposed to take care of him, and i did; but he also took care of this small kid and nursed him back to life. and after his death, his influence helped me to rise again to the challenge of living. not a bad record for a ten-year-old kid. to this day, he is one of my greatest teachers, and he will be so until my own death. today, he’s not here anymore. but he’s not only a memory for me ; he's in my life. i bear his legacy day in, day out. and i am adamant to fulfil it through my life, and pass it on to my future kids. yet this legacy is not a burden; it is a quiet, unrelenting push to be aware of my luck to be alive, and enjoy it. i don’t consciously think about him every day, but every time i need it, i feel his presence. through good times and hard times, he’s here, and i can simply ask him anything. and every time i do, i feel his energy, his conviction recalling me life is to be spent living. not hiding, not shying away from it, not pretending. but facing it. he reminds me, by his example, that my life is my own responsibility, and if i shy away from it i will be the only one to blame. that living means to be in the here and now, accept your situation as it is, accept yourself as you are, then taking full responsibility of it and move forward with all your might. these two things are deeply intertwined. if you don’t take responsibility of your life, you’re stuck where you are and can’t move forward. because you don’t write your story yourself, you let it be written by chance, or by somebody else; and you slowly lose your power to write it as you wish. instead, if you start to look facts straight into the eye and take responsibility of what happens to you, you regain the power to change your story and its ending. the only way out of your problems is the way through, not the way around. nadav's life was the best illustration of this. his illness doomed him to death; but he made of this a story of will and drive, not one of resignation and weakness. instead of helplessly fleeing death and killing time until his last day, he did what mattered to him, he fought until the end; and when the end came, he knew it, and he surrendered as a warrior, not as a victim. the facts are the same, but the words his attitude brings to our lips are not that he died; but that he lived. that makes for a whole different story. thus he proves us it would be a shame to spend your life fleeing your problems or drowning into them, instead of facing them head-on, engage with them and… truly live your life. whatever you want it to be, soaring to the heights or quietly following the stream. this path of responsibility and awareness is indeed harder to follow. but it is always worth it. because we only have one life, haven’t we ? you may not be aware of it, but every day, people around us die. every day, like nadav, a few people leave life; and every morning we may be one of them. yet, some of us are still alive at the end of the day. we are survivors, every day, every time we open our eyes again and see the world. and every day we are a bit more lucky to be alive. we should be grateful for the time given to us, not resentful because it is limited. dead people remind us we have a life. that we have the fantastic privilege to be alive here and now; so why would we want to spend this precious time pointlessly? they show us the importance of life and of what really matters as long as we are alive: our close ones, our life purpose, our path towards what makes us more human. they leave us their memory, not to burden our life, but to deepen it. bearing it is a gift, not a woe. they don't wish you to live less because of their death, but to live better thanks to their life. what greatest tribute could you pay to nadav than giving your absolute best shot at life, then? all those i knew and lost live in my mind and lend me their weight, their presence, to be fully aware of the life running into my veins. their memory blends into my life and makes it richer, deeper, brighter. livelier. being a bearer of nadav's memory reminds me of the blessing of life, and of my power for living. so, folks, live your life. don’t waste it. be grateful for it, take responsibility and live your life to the fullest. and as long as you will keep and follow nadav’s drive in your life, he will live into you. in memoriam nadav shavit . publié dans métaphysique | laisser une réponse requiem aeternam dona eo publié le 25 mai 2016 par wombat répondre ce n’est pas mon deuil ; ce n’est pas ma douleur. mais je la partage, parce qu’elle touche des proches. ce n’est jamais que la quatrième fois que ça m’arrive, de voir un drame surgir à côté de moi. à chaque fois, je n’ai pas d’autre lien qu’affectif avec les personnes touchées ; à chaque fois je m’en sens partie prenante malgré tout ; et le choc s’il est moindre n’en est pas moins réel. une fois c’était une personne seule ; la seconde c’était des parents ; les deux dernières fois c’est d’un enfant qu’il s’agit… il existe peu d’événements plus terribles dans la vie d’un parent que de faire le deuil de quelqu’un qu’ils ont désiré, qu’ils ont aimé assez pour lui donner la vie et leur temps, qui devait leur survivre, enfin. souvent, au cœur de la souffrance d’autrui, on peut encore faire, dire, espérer quelque chose. ne serait-ce qu’avoir conscience que notre présence peut aider, et être là, même si on n’en mesure pas l’effet. parfois, il ne reste plus rien d’autre que l’impuissance. et c’est cela le plus terrible à subir, au fond. ce n’est pas la mort, ce n’est pas la douleur, puisqu’on sait qu’elle ne nous touche pas directement, qu’elle n’a pas de commune mesure avec celle des parents. c’est de voir un gouffre s’ouvrir sous les pieds d’un proche, le voir tomber dedans ; c’est vouloir l’aider de toute son âme, et savoir dans le même instant qu’on ne le peut pas. que personne ne le peut ; qu’il doit traverser cela seul. que ça le brise en mille morceaux et qu’il ne sait pas s’il parviendra à recoller les morceaux un jour. et cela ne nous laisse que plus démuni devant sa souffrance et la nôtre. il ne reste qu’à accepter cette faille béante ouverte dans notre quotidien ; à la regarder en face ; à laisser la douleur nous traverser ; et à prendre une nouvelle fois conscience que vivre est un privilège qui nous est donné par la grâce du destin, et que nous prenons trop souvent pour acquis. alors vivez ; et donnez du sens à votre vie. la grâce de la mort est de nous rappeler l’importance de notre existence, si humble soit-elle. une vie peut changer le monde ; un jour de ce monde peut changer une vie. publié dans métaphysique | laisser une réponse retour à l’intellect publié le 29 février 2016 par wombat répondre
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